10 Things You Can do to Counter Gynocentrism and Bring Fairness to Men
Tom Golden, Mar 10, 2025
This is a list compiled from my own writing and that of both Grok and ChatGPT. Have a look and see what you think. What is left out?
1. Cultivate Awareness & Knowledge
- Educate yourself on how gynocentrism influences society, law, relationships, and media.
- Read books and research on gender dynamics (e.g., Warren Farrell, Paul Nathanson & Katherine Young).
- Recognize societal double standards that disadvantage men, from everyday issues like Ladies’ Nights to more serious disparities in domestic violence laws, family courts, and child support. Learn to articulate these issues clearly.
2. Reject Shame-Based Narratives
- Identify and resist guilt-based controls that shame men into self-sacrifice (e.g., “real men provide no matter what”).
- Stand firm in your worth beyond traditional obligations of servitude or disposability.
- Refuse to let shame dictate your choices, relationships, or self-perception.
- Know that your worth as a man goes beyond accomplishments.
3. Build and Support Male Spaces
- Engage in or create male-positive spaces like men’s groups, online communities, and mentorship programs.
- Support platforms that advocate for men’s well-being and counter isolation.
- Foster brotherhood and mutual support among red pilled men to resist divisive narratives.
- Enjoy male-only gatherings, whether through sports, hiking, gaming, running, working out, music, or simply spending time with friends.
4. Challenge Double Standards & Unfair Policies
- Call out biases in family courts, education, workplace policies, and domestic violence laws. (to name a few)
- Advocate for fair treatment in custody battles, scholarship access, and workplace regulations.
- Use facts, not emotion, to challenge misandrist narratives (e.g., men make up 92% of workplace fatalities, yet are ignored in safety policies).
5. Set Boundaries & Control Your Relationships
- Avoid relationships where you are valued only for what you provide (e.g., financial security, protection).
- Build relationships based on mutual respect, appreciation, and shared values—not obligation.
- Walk away from dynamics that demand self-sacrifice without reciprocity.