Manipulating the figures to suit the feminist narrative

Domestic violence delusions

– Feminists pull the wool over our eyes

Bettina Arndt, Apr 15, 2025

“You can’t hand out domestic violence orders like parking tickets.” Well, that’s exactly what they have in mind for residents of our Deep North.

The speaker was Terry O’Gorman from the Queensland Council for Civil Liberties, protesting on television news about the latest domestic violence madness taking over his state. Under sweeping “reforms” announced earlier this month, police officers will be able to hand out 12-month Police Protection Directives on the spot – bypassing current court processes.

The Queensland Police Union has been running a grim television campaign featuring a full screen shot of a closed fist and a vicious, snarling man – making the case that police are drowning in domestic violence cases, which they say comprise up to 90% of their workload.

Between 2012-2024, the number of calls for service to domestic violence incidents increased from 60,000 to more than 192,000, an increase of 218 per cent. Queensland Police received almost 200,000 domestic violence related calls in 2024, which means they are responding to these cases every three minutes.

“Policing has been crumbling under this pressure,” says Police Minister Dan Purdie, explaining the current situation is unsustainable, with officers unable to address issues like burglaries, car theft and road safety.

Yet if we take a step back, we can see that the rate of actual violence is going down in this country – according to the official data from the Australian Bureau of Statistics. Between 2005 and 2021-22, the 12-month prevalence rate of physical violence declined for both men and women:

  • Men – from 10% in 2005 to 6.1% in 2021-22
  • Women – from 4.7% in 2005 to 2.9% in 2021-22

Homicides are also going down, even between intimate partners. Last year The Australian Institute of Criminology released the latest figures which demonstrated a 30-year decline in intimate partner domestic homicide – “The female intimate partner homicide rate decreased overall by two-thirds (66 per cent) in the 34-year period between 1989-90 and 2022-23.”

And according to our best official domestic violence data, The ABS’s Personal Safety Survey, less than one percent of women report physical violence from their partner or ex-partner in the previous year – and that too is decreasing.

Read the rest here . . .

False accuser receives justice

A False Accuser Has Been Sentenced to Jail

But her punishment and official reactions to her crime are patently inadequate.

Janice Fiamengo, Apr 05, 2025

Woman whose rape lies got innocent man jailed receives disgustingly light  sentence | Daily Mail Online

Anjela Borisova Urumova of Bristol Township, Pennsylvania [pictured above], was recently sentenced for a false allegation of sexual assault against Daniel Pierson, a 41-year-old man from Lower Makefield Township.

Urumova, 20, had claimed that Pierson tried to kidnap her in a parking lot on the evening of April 16th 2024, allegedly grabbing her from behind, punching her, attempting to pull her pants down, and dragging her towards his vehicle in the Redner’s grocery store lot.

She provided a detailed description of her claimed assailant, later picking him out of a police lineup. Pierson was charged with multiple felony offences and jailed.

The entire encounter, however, was a fabrication. Urumova had never met Pierson and had no reason to accuse him. She had seen him in the parking lot previously and found him “creepy.” I wrote about the story in detail here.

Now she has at last been sentenced, receiving a jail term of “45 days to 23 months” in the Bucks County jail.

That will mean, I presume, that if she stays out of trouble and says the right things to corrections officers, she will be a free woman in about six weeks.

The Bucks County District Attorney’s Office details other punishments:

“In addition to the county jail sentence, Common Pleas Judge Stephen A. Corr sentenced the defendant to one year of probation and ordered her to undergo a mental health evaluation, have no contact with the victim or his family and pay $3,600 in restitution to the victim.”

Well, it’s something, but not much.

Urumova will spend little more time in jail than did the man she falsely accused. The $3,600 restitution might as well be nothing for all the good it will do. As a rape claimant, Urumova would have been entitled to up to $35,000 from the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape Victims Compensation Assistance program. It’s not clear if Daniel Pierson is entitled to anything.

Read the rest here . . .

Nietzsche’s claims about women

The Harsh Truth About Women | Nietzsche

Socratic Sphere

‘What did Nietzsche really think about women and why is it still so controversial today? In this video, we dive into the raw, uncomfortable, and often misunderstood views of Friedrich Nietzsche on women, love, power, and human nature. Was he a misogynist, a realist, or simply unafraid to confront society’s illusions? This isn’t about agreement. It’s about understanding a brutally honest perspective that still sparks debate over a century later.’

Acting against feminism

10 Things You Can do to Counter Gynocentrism and Bring Fairness to Men

Tom Golden, Mar 10, 2025

This is a list compiled from my own writing and that of both Grok and ChatGPT. Have a look and see what you think. What is left out?

1. Cultivate Awareness & Knowledge

  • Educate yourself on how gynocentrism influences society, law, relationships, and media.
  • Read books and research on gender dynamics (e.g., Warren FarrellPaul Nathanson & Katherine Young).
  • Recognize societal double standards that disadvantage men, from everyday issues like Ladies’ Nights to more serious disparities in domestic violence laws, family courts, and child support. Learn to articulate these issues clearly.

2. Reject Shame-Based Narratives

  • Identify and resist guilt-based controls that shame men into self-sacrifice (e.g., “real men provide no matter what”).
  • Stand firm in your worth beyond traditional obligations of servitude or disposability.
  • Refuse to let shame dictate your choices, relationships, or self-perception.
  • Know that your worth as a man goes beyond accomplishments.

3. Build and Support Male Spaces

  • Engage in or create male-positive spaces like men’s groups, online communities, and mentorship programs.
  • Support platforms that advocate for men’s well-being and counter isolation.
  • Foster brotherhood and mutual support among red pilled men to resist divisive narratives.
  • Enjoy male-only gatherings, whether through sports, hiking, gaming, running, working out, music, or simply spending time with friends.

4. Challenge Double Standards & Unfair Policies

  • Call out biases in family courts, education, workplace policies, and domestic violence laws. (to name a few)
  • Advocate for fair treatment in custody battles, scholarship access, and workplace regulations.
  • Use facts, not emotion, to challenge misandrist narratives (e.g., men make up 92% of workplace fatalities, yet are ignored in safety policies).

5. Set Boundaries & Control Your Relationships

  • Avoid relationships where you are valued only for what you provide (e.g., financial security, protection).
  • Build relationships based on mutual respect, appreciation, and shared values—not obligation.
  • Walk away from dynamics that demand self-sacrifice without reciprocity.

Read the rest here . . .

Woman perpetrator – no worries

Sexual Misconduct Looks Different When a Woman is the Perpetrator

And like many such cases, the real story behind Iceland’s former Minister for Children is probably complicated.

Janice Fiamengo, Mar 31, 2025

Þórsdóttir gives a statement: Says her child's father was a stalker -  Iceland Monitor

Last week, Ásthildur Lóa Thórsdóttir [above], Iceland’s Minister for Education and Children’s Affairs, was revealed to have had a sexual relationship with a teen boy decades ago, when she was 23 years old. The case vividly highlights the west’s double standards about sex between adults and minors, and it exposes grey areas in victim-centered sanctimony.

That the case occurred in Iceland, a feminist stronghold with a female president, a female prime minister, and a claimed “zero-tolerance policy for sexual abuse and exploitation of children,” is not at all surprising. No one seriously expects feminists to apply their touted compassion to male teenagers; and no one believes that their championing of gender equality includes sexual probity for women.

Iceland is so thoroughly feminist that in 2023, the prime minister herself joined other women on a one-day strike to demand, amongst other utopian objectives, “an end to unequal pay,” neatly sidestepping (while illustrating) that the so-called pay gap is caused primarily by women’s tendency to work fewer hours than men do. Female moral innocence is such a cherished belief of the Nordic island nation that it has designated 2025 as Women’s Year, with “12 months of events dedicated to progressing gender equality.” (Interested readers should consult a gushing Guardian article, “Women are the best to women,” which depicts Iceland as a near-idyllic women-led community in which men hardly figure.)

Women are the best to women': has Iceland found the antidote to toxic  'girlboss' feminism? | Iceland | The Guardian

Clearly, when the most powerful woman in the country can take a day off to showcase women’s alleged lack of power, few women are prepared to consider their own potential abuse of it.

That brings us to the Minister for Children’s Affairs, who appeared flabbergasted last week to find that her long-ago sexual past has become fodder for unsympathetic public discussion and suggestions of serious impropriety. “I understand … what it looks like,” she is quoted as saying to reporters, seemingly exasperated at how difficult it is “to get the right story in the news today.” At 58 years of age, Thórsdóttir is being given a tiny glimpse into what thousands of men have experienced since feminism entered its Jacobin phase.

Over three decades ago, Thórsdóttir began a relationship with a 15-year-old boy who was attending her church group. He has been identified as Eirik Asmundsson. He was a troubled boy with a chaotic home life, and she was an adult member in the group; newspaper articles have said that she was a group counselor, which she deniesShe claims that the relationship did not become sexual until the boy was 16, and that he pursued her.

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The Family Law Act – ‘promoting great wickedness’

Former Family Court Judge spills the beans

– about how feminism has captured the Family Court system

Bettina Arndt, Apr 01, 2025

“The Family Court system is in enormous trouble.” That’s a momentous statement given that the speaker, Adelaide barrister Stuart Lindsay, is a former Family Court judge. But there’s much more… This experienced insider blames the parlous state of this vital institution on a campaign led by the Labor party to “promote a particular pronounced feminist ideology in the Family Law Act.”

Lindsay spent ten years, from 2004-2014, working as a judge in the Federal Circuit court dealing mainly with family court matters. He’s now back working as special counsel for a local firm, on the coalface of a system he sees as being in dire straits.

He’s been right there, witnessing the destructive impact of feminist ideology infiltrating the family law system, destroying the lives of so many ordinary families. Lindsay explains the big push started with Prime Minister Julia Gillard, but Kevin Rudd was right on board, as successive Labor governments have “tried to ensure judges provide for right outcomes in accordance with the invariably feminist ideology.”

The play sheet at the heart of this ideology is domestic violence, namely the nonsensical feminist claim that all other considerations regarding the best interests of children must be swept aside by the need to protect youngsters from dangerous dads. This incentivises false allegations of violence since they give women immense power throughout the family law process.

During my conversation with him it was utterly fascinating to hear this former judicial officer describing what it was like being on the receiving end of feminist efforts to insert domestic violence into every part of the Family Law Act, requiring judges to endlessly “dip their lid to this particular notion.”

Judges must “bend the knee and give recognition to these political declarations,” says Lindsay, even though, when proper evidence is presented to the court, many domestic violence allegations are withdrawn or fall apart. But by then, the allegations have often been successfully used to have fathers removed from the home and denied contact with children; with the accuser given endless advantages, including financial benefits when it comes to negotiating her way through the system.

The consequences have been dire. “The Family Law Act has promoted great wickedness throughout Australian society for 50 years,” declared Stuart Lindsay.

Read the rest here . . .

Seven signs of an evil woman

7 EVIDENT Signs that there is an EVIL Woman next to you | Stoic Philosophy

Can you recognize the warning signs of a truly dangerous person? In this video, Stoic Training reveals 7 evident signs that an evil woman may be in your life—manipulating, deceiving, and draining your energy.

1. She’s Always the Victim.

2. She’s Addicted to Drama.

3. She Controls Through Guilt.

4. She Lacks Empathy.

5. She’s Obsessed with Superficial Things.

6. She Can’t Admit She’s Wrong.

7. She Disrespects Your Time.

Using Stoic philosophy, we break down how to stay rational, protect yourself, and remain unshaken in the face of toxicity. Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, and Epictetus taught the power of self-control and wisdom—now it’s time to apply it.