30 September 2009
The unstoppable sexualisation of young girls
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Perth Now has a report 27 September on 'Shag bands'. The first few
paragraphs read:
THEY look
like a symbol of childhood innocence. But these bracelets are part of an
"insidious" game that sees primary school kids perform sex acts.
And it is feared the craze may soon sweep
WA
Rather than a mere fashion statement, the so-called "shag bands" are linked
to grades of sexual behaviour. A Facebook page about the innocuous-looking
bands has already been inundated with more than 12,000 fans.
The game involves a boy or girl trying to break the rubber band off the
wearer's wrist. If it snaps, the wearer has to perform the sexual favour
that corresponds to the colour.
Snap an orange band and get a kiss, snap a yellow and get a hug. But snap a
black, light blue or light green band, and the "prize" is something far more
sinister.
Nobody who has taken even a moment to reflect on the developments in
Western society over the last fifty years should be surprised that there are
such things as 'shag bands' - and are worn by young girls. What may surprise
are the comments that follow this story. Many scoff at the report saying
that shag bands have been around for decades. What's the big deal? No one
took them seriously. Anyhow, so what?
The evidence suggests that some girls, even if a minority, succumbed. One
comment spoke of girls giving the boys 'blow jobs' at the back of the school
bus. Indication enough of the mentality that is insidiously sown by such
modern things as shag bands. The issue is the mentality that is cultivated.
It is about the social atmosphere in which the seedy side of sexual
behaviour is introduced to girls, giving them a nasty warped idea of what is
expected of them. Where that expectation leads should not escape any one.
The following typified an attitude that was either explicit or implicit in
many comments.
Great stuff. Should be more of it and let
the young ones enjoy their bodies in a liberated way. Stop telling them what
they can and cannot do. All consenting people should be able to do whatever
they want.
After Pope Benedict apologised last year for the sexual abuse of minors
by Catholic clergy he warned that it was wrong to focus only on the abusive
behaviour of Catholic religious, that the problem was widespread in Western
society. He was absolutely right. Media commentators, blinded by their
anti-Catholic bigotry, went to town on him, saying that he 'just did not get
it', meaning that he was minimising the guilt of the clergy and evading
culpability.
The mountain of evidence supporting the Pope is such that the real
culpability rests with those whose appalling prejudice stands in the way of
action that will eliminate the chances of a father raping his daughter over
a thirty year period.
Mother and man turn twelve-year-old daughter into prostitute
Governments sexualising our children
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Women and the rise of raunch culture
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